Orange Flag: Caution, Charming

The verdict

You are magnetic, and you know it. You are the person everyone wants at the party and the person a few exes still mention, not because you were awful but because you were confusing. Hot-then-cold, all-in-then-busy, loyal-but-keeping-notes.

Orange flags usually come from a big heart running on very little sleep and too many feelings. You are not the villain of anyone’s story, but you have definitely been the cliffhanger.

Your orange profile

Real strengths

• Exciting company with endless stories
• Passionate and generous when you are all in
• Quick wit that can rescue any awkward moment

The caution tape

• Inconsistent attention that keeps people guessing
• Keeping score in friendships
• Testing people instead of telling them
• Avoids the bill or the hard conversation with the same move

In love and friendship

In love you create sparks; the work is creating safety too. Pick one habit, like replying consistently, and keep it for a month. In friendship you are the fun one, so make sure you are also the dependable one at least half the time.

Flag chemistry

Flag tags

• hot and cold
• main event
• cliffhanger
• charming menace
• work in progress